So much of my hesitation around a split is about fear - fear of the unknown - fear of being alone - fear of not having enough money. Fear of not being loved.
I have the same exact fears. I think I'm getting beyond fear of the unknown, but am now facing the fear of being alone and not having H's companionship, even if it is yucky right now. I've always had a fear of not being loved, and said this morning that I would just like someone to love me for me.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
