I am so mad....so, H emails and says why have I been telling everyone about him not knowing about the tests I had when he has known for weeks. I said this was same test but for something totally unrelated to the other problem. When SIL texted me a couple days ago, I said I didn't tell H about it cuz I didn't want to stress him or affect any decisions. Now H is mad because he says I was splitting hairs and it's the same thing, he was worried for weeks. I responded that I just thought since you never mentioned anything that he didn't really care or didn't remember at all. So i kept going through the tests without letting anyone know.
I called SIL and apologized for mis quoting about H not knowing about tests and she started to say but I didn't say...and since H quoted my text verbatim, she is lying. arrgghh what a mess, I tried to do the right thing and it turns out like this.
