Glad you enjoyed yourself and yes, it's always nice to feel attractive. Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying a little innocent flirting. I think it reminds us that we are not defined by our spouse or our M.
I do not like the comment about a "backup plan" though. I realize you have a lot of conflicting feelings here, but that comment scares the hell out of me.
Originally Posted By: theUF
I know that myself, I would feel more free to move on if I made the choice without being affected by some other woman(something unstable).