Glad you enjoyed yourself and yes, it's always nice to feel attractive. Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying a little innocent flirting. I think it reminds us that we are not defined by our spouse or our M.

I do not like the comment about a "backup plan" though. I realize you have a lot of conflicting feelings here, but that comment scares the hell out of me.

Originally Posted By: theUF
I know that myself, I would feel more free to move on if I made the choice without being affected by some other woman(something unstable).


Totally agree.


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13