P.S. Cor - I think that what you are experiencing is not abnormal. When you find yourself trying to measure how your W feels not vs. how she felt on BD, remember that all of our emotions and feelings change with time. How she feels now most certainly is not how she felt then... she wouldn't be with you otherwise. And any of us, or our spouses, may feel differently about our relationships a year from now, 5 years from now, 20 years from now. There are no guarantees with our M's or our lives in general. That is something that we learned when we first had the bomb dropped on us... right? Live in the present... focus on making things better now and for the future... let the past go and move forward.
This was very helpful Denver. Your insight really resonated with me since reading this last week and won't soon be forgotten. I know your busy so thank you sincerely for taking the time...
Hope your feeling better. How'd the party go?
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
