Thanks snodderly, i've not mentioned it to him and he's not mentioned it to me.
On christmas day it will be 4 years since my mum died, and its always very emotional for me, but right now I don't know how I feel. Every year H always quietly hugs me and says "I know today is hard for you honey, but your doing great" This year I doubt he'll even acknowledge it or even care.
Just had to get that out
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
