Wow, what a weekend you had! In addition to what Snodderly wisely said, I wonder if "the puppet master" and her minions are putting pressure on H...didn't he say something about "being a man having drinks in his own house" when he had his vodka party last Sunday? Also, how is the pressure for him at work? Seems lots of "control" statements lately from H. This can be an issue for men who aren't in mlc, but throw mlc in the mix and it's fanatical focus on control...yikes!
I do think you got some valuable info from H, though, a peek into where he is at. Seems like we are in this sloooowww motion dance, eh? I applaud you for being honest with H regarding what his family said.
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He also went on to say I have to just stand up to his mother
Yeah, true....BUT...H is going to have to figure out how to stand up for his WIFE with her/them sooner or later. You deserve no less, and anything less is disrespectful to you, the marriage, and, if you think about it, to H and his family...and H does need to be a big boy, ya know? And make his own decisions, and...oh...wait...
Funny how all these little pieces can fit together into a very strange puzzle.
Hang in there!!
T^2
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