Glad you had a good time w/your 2 GFs. It sounds like your h has settled down just a bit if he's requesting lists, etc. Maybe he's having some lucid moments and that's why he was able to come into your home.
As for your lawyer...he sounds like a good one. Good for him! It won't be long before his lawyer contacts him about the response and he'll be in a foul mood once again.
As you walk the path, detachment will get easier for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
