I text one of my SIL the other day to get her dads DOB for a gift I'm having made for MIL for christmas, she text me the info I needed then text me "I really miss you" I said miss you too
Saturday morning H got the kids for the night, so saturday night I built a fire outside and my 2 GF's came over...and well we got so drunk (I really don't drink much) but damn I needed that, we laughed and sang to the christmas songs, I'm sure my neighbors thought I had finally lost it LOL I must say that I did not fixate on H all night and it felt great!
Last night D10 text me when they were on the way home, then H called me (first time in awhile) to ask if I had made a list on my computer as I always do about everything the kids got for christmas, I said yes, he saidcan you send it to me, I said no problem. It was a nice conversation not sarcastic at all. He even came into OUR house when he dropped them off!!! He's not done that in awhile.
My L sent me the response we sent to H lawyer about the marital greement and WOW my L held no punches at all, my BFF read it and she had to hold herself from peeing she laughed so hard. He was straight to the point and in the response he said My H's marital agreement proposal was "laughable at best" hahahahaha I love my lawyer!
It's getting easier every day to detach but I really do miss my friend.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
