Thanks guys for checking in. I have been busy dealing with S situation and also with the D's here at home. Not much else going on. H and I sort of had words at visitation on Thursday for S the other day. Also the day before(wednesday) after court. We got there and S attorney and I were talking. ( to be fair, he is young and VERY good looking. I think there is attraction there on both of our parts) anyway, so after court we were outside talking and H storms up, stomps actually and just acted crazy. Screaming, said something to the effect of yea you are just Ms. Nice and innocent. Or something like that. I ignored him and got in my car. I think then he and the attorney had words. I couldn't hear clearly but something was definitely said. Perhaps H picked up on the mutual attraction? I dunno. Don't care really. Then the following day at visitation he started again. He was obviously still in a snit and very very obviously high. just made it unequivocally clear that if he couldn't speak to me respectfully not to speak. Also, not sure if I mentioned it here but I have an Apple email address I have had for years. It is accessible from any web browser. So I went to bed late last Wednesday night. Woke up and it was locked up. Which means since I have an iPhone and Macs that it locked up my Apple ID across the board which means contacts, calendars, email, itunes, all of it was giving me security errors on all devices. Apparently, someone tried repeatedly to log in and Apple locked it up. I mentioned it. It was weird but I am pretty sure it was them. Something about how he reacted. Made him mad, he acted pretty childish. Same old, same old.
I have managed to pretty effectively cut myself off. So the last couple of days have been pretty good. One thing that bothered me was I think I mentioned he asked girls to decorate his Xmas tree this Sat. He never called nor contacted them. We did pass him on the road in the afternoon. He waved. I didn't. Girls did.
I did get some great news on the school front. So that is trucking along.
I am starting to be concerned about our house. I basically have decided that I am willing to pretty much give him everything else but I want the house as it is paid for. Also, with the changes with school I have about a year left so I will need to stay here in KY. S will also be on probation for a year. So everything points to staying here. H and I haven't talked about anything or any business. I think I am okay with that at this point but I DO need to get some sort of information on the house. Dreading that. I think perhaps I will wait for several weeks before I try to approach it.
The kids have pretty much come to the conclusion finally that H and I will not be reconciling. I think actually given the circumstances they even understand why.
One thing I have noticed is that we have more support from odd places. lol People I didn't expect support from so that is very nice.
I hope everyone is good here. I am actually feeling pretty good. No outbursts of anger or anything. Pretty calm. Not getting baited into any arguments. Busy. lol I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!
