Thanks Nail. I have no intention of getting into anything with this guy, but of course, that's what I said about OM2 and look how that turned out. I do want to give my H the benefit of the doubt and I know I can't do that if there's some other guy around. On the other hand, I can't help feeling the need for a "back up plan" given that H and I aren't making much progress.

Funny, I went to a party this afternoon and Eckhart Tolle came up. Apparently he was just a regular guy who had a flash of inspiration one day which totally changed his life.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page