I've read through most of this thread and felt as though I were reading my own H's possible postings 5-10 years into the future. I've learned a lot, so thank you for sharing, 4311, and for your amazing insides, Kaffe.
I'm happy what I am going through seems to have helped others. tori - if you see this coming, and you don't want it to happen, please don't be passive. I knew I should have done more - if you can see you need to do more, please, do it...
