It's None of my Business

[BeingMe]

Thanks for your comments and advice, S and WCW. I will definitely look into that Tax issue.

New development ... I've found my marriage certificate! Yay! I will take it to my lawyer tomorrow before I lose it again. I asked H if I could take $2000 out of the account to pay the lawyer and he said yes. So, my D is starting a shift forward again. I am quite nervous about next year ... it's going to be difficult to extricate myself from H's financial affairs, get the alimony paid automatically, house sold ... so much to do, but I'm excited. Not sure what to do about the condo. A friend of mine whose husband is friends with my H told me that he (friend's husband) said that I'm a thousand times better than OW. Well, I know that. I'm curious to know who she is, but I'm going to let it go. No point in wondering who this OW or OW's is/are, or how long it's been going on. H was clear that it wasn't my business ... I beg to differ, while we are married, but once we are divorced, then, yes, none of my business. H is scr*wed up, and whoever he dates, I hope they're better for him than I was.