YOU dug yourself into the grave. You SHOULD NOT have agreed with her on the D? Why would you if you don't believe in it? All you did was validate her reasons which you said weren't true.
If you think that's DBing it's not. You validate her RIGHT to want to D. But you DON'T have to validate her decision to do so if you don't agree.
The more I read your post, I kept cringing because you were shooting yourself in the foot ALOT! And you have been doing since the beginning. STOP AGREEING WITH HER ABOUT THE D!
You're NOT lying to her, You're NOT doing anything to undermine her like she's accusing you of. Why on earth would you agree that you were? Be the man and tell it to her straight. She has to hit rock bottom. YOU can't lead her away from that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.