Definitely. Kids say her folks appreciated the card. I wrote it in English and Portuguese (on-line tools to translate). It acknowldged their perseverence and thanked them for being there for me over the years especially 12 years ago when I was quite ill and in hospital for several months. Their life struggles and perseverance helped me push on and fight for my life. My W was instrumental in that too. Which is one thought I had in trying to work it out after her A...part of me felt I owed her one. Funny, through my health problems over the years (4 surguries in 8 years) the last 5 I have been healthier than ever as I am in A1 shape and it all screws up. I fought so hard and it worked out but losing the fight for my M and W. Irony or bad timing. I known my W has been through a lot with me and she even made me feel guilty about that a few months ago but I did so well supporting my family. She resents me so much.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.