I just received two texts today from him asking about presents for D13, telling me his schedule (which hasn't been given to me in a month) and what time he should pick them up Christmas Eve. Just as nice and happy as if the crap that went down at Thanksgiving didn't happen. I had text him two times in the last two weeks and not ONE RESPONSE. Now, gee I guess we're cool?
D10 says " well mom Susan went back to work. He's home at home now and she's gone."
I swear ever since he got involved with OW I see this "when the cat's away the mice will play" sort of behavior with him.
I don't even know if I should respond back or not. I don't want to play games, but at the same time I swear talking to him about anything is futile. Before you know it he'll be spewing on me about something in the next month as it is. I want to be the bigger person but I also want to show him how it feels to be ignored, frozen out and dismissed at the same time. I know two wrongs do not make a right, but Im sick of trying to get along with this man, because he's impossible to get along with.
Me not responding would be a complete 180.
I just want peace, and at this point and time the only thing that seems like it would bring peace is to just completely block him out of my life completely.
