I agree, in the context of the challenge, breaking bread with a stranger appears to work for me, only when it is spontaneous.
I completely respect that you tried. I do hope that you are able to create meaningful relationships with people now, without the need to serve them or have them serve some purpose, for you... other than simply being a friend / companion.
Hope you are well through this season!
Any time you want to "play" again, pop back here and say the word.