You are doing more and more things independently and look where you are going! You've hooked up a DVD player all by yourself and everything is working perfectly. You and your girls are moving forward by leaps and bounds and you've been workin as well. The job may end soon, but you will have some work history to put on your resume. You'll find another job very soon. Your confidence is much stronger these day.
Your h may be one of those mlcers that will be angry for a very long time...it's his choice to be that way. It takes a lot of energy to remain angry all of the time. He's mad at the world and you know what? He'll get over it in time or he'll be an angry old man in short order.
I'm sure your little girl was cute in the video. I'm glad you sent one of the inlaws and to your h. I'm sure your inlaws enjoyed the video.
I'm glad to see that you are moving forward and not waiting in one spot. You have a lot to be proud of! Always remember...don't see yourself short...you are the prize!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.