You've actually done the right thing. Don't answer every mail of hers. You have your own life to live. Don't make the mistake of apologizing. Now's the time to give her space. Enjoy the Christmas visit with your son, that's what counts now. Wait with the Retrouville suggestion, the time is not ripe yet.
Thank you, by the way.
At least something i have been doing is being affirmed as the correct course of action.
Today, i am buying some karate sparring pads for my S via cragslist. Wow, what a great deal. I've never utilized that site before. Very good on the budget.
??? Maybe the W may come over today finally to help our S finish decorating out tree.
I'm not holding my breath.
Also, i did recon for Christmas presents for my S last night and will try to get some alone time to pick stuff up.
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012
