Thank you for that advice, FY. It makes lots of sense.
He's fine today but not apologetic. I asked if he was still grumpy this morning and he said he wasn't. He commented on what a long sleep he'd had and I said something to the effect of him needing it. That was the extent of it.
H said he'd think of dessert for our Xmas meal. I realise that I like being sole charge. I didn't want to dampen his enthusiasm but I'd rather be in charge. He probably won't follow through though...
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012