Thank you for that advice, FY. It makes lots of sense.

He's fine today but not apologetic. I asked if he was still grumpy this morning and he said he wasn't. He commented on what a long sleep he'd had and I said something to the effect of him needing it. That was the extent of it.

H said he'd think of dessert for our Xmas meal. I realise that I like being sole charge. I didn't want to dampen his enthusiasm but I'd rather be in charge. He probably won't follow through though...


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012