I have a few friends who don't know my W. They been reminding me to call her by her first name and not address her as my wife. I see how that can ease the pain. I still hurt and though she's dragging her feet on the D I'm not sure of what I want any more.

I feel she's not delaying things b/c she wants to stay M. This is what she does. Not good at following through on what she says. Though she still wants the divorce.