Hey there. Mine calls it her home because she kicks me out. Though I still pay for it. I think calling it home is just a habit and lack of alternative. don't read anything in to it.

Don't believe anything she says. Don't try to read between the lines. It will only cause trouble with her and disappointment for you.

If she is having second thoughts, that's fine for her. But don't do anthing or discuss them with her. Again, her mind is a crazy place right now. She wants it all, and knows she can't have it.

Make sure you are getting out and doing things. It is okay to make her watch the child while you go out.

Revisionist history is par for the course. I wish I knew half of what my W has told people about me. All of the females we mutually know are given me the coldest of shoulders or just cutting me off. She's needs to rewrite our lives to justify her decisions. Though, if I had been a terrible as she's made me out to be, it would make her the biggest loser in the world for marrying me - let alone staying in it for so long. But logic has no place in a WAW head.


Me:48
W:40
D:5 & 2
T: 15
M:12
Sep:9/10/12