Sounds good guys..H came by where I was working and I was in other part of bar so it was easy to ignore him.
Talked at him twice, both initiated by him, very pleasant otherwise ignored him.

Okay, is it just me or is it very wrong that SIL asked H to ask his GF to come and help at work since she is short staffed tomorrow ? She lives an hour away and this tells me that soil has known about gf for longtime and even perhaps had her sleep there with H.

All the while maintaining a sympathetic we are sisters vibe with me. Wtf. I have said no to his family Xmas party next week and he will take kids. I wonder if he came by to ask if he could introduce kids next week to gf. That is my fear. I will say no. He may have been gone for years but to us he has been gone 9 weeks exactly. While S knows D does not and I certainly hope he does not pick an Xmas event to do this.

I don't think i know him anymore at all. I certainly don't know sil! I think that was quite rude and a bit low class. Anyway, off to bed, had fun flirted am very tired. And sick lol!