<What we need to remember is that engaging our pain is as much a part of life and growth as engaging the things that give us pleasure.>
Huh, I never thought about that. I have known for some time now that I was disengaging...but, to me being engaged would mean that I was taking care of my sh*t, it means that good things were happening because I was taking care of my sh*t, I never thought about being engaged with my pain...being engaged with my pain..what a novel idea.