Thank you for the awesome pointers. You are right, I think she has second thoughts sometimes. It is amazing though how they only retain the negative memories! She is telling her mom that she has been very.unfulfilled for 4 years now. She has blocked all the fabulous.memories like having our daughter etc..

Last night she made baked ziti =) now last time she cooked a few days ago, I saw that the next day when she was going,to OM she packed him some food. But today she did not, then she messaged me to say don't forget the ziti in the fridge. It bizarre the situation I find myself in.

We are in for a ride fellas!


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017