Stuck between a hard place and the biggest rock.

[Grateful]

I just reread your post and it is even more self centered the second time around. It's about you, you, you and not what's best for your son. Those are the only terms you need to think in right now.

I agree. Take it from the most self-centered guy in town (me). You have to take the spotlight off yourself if you do actually want what is best for your son.