What is best for my son is having a mom and a dad. I didn't decide to leave, and I'm only trying to have a more equal parenting arrangement, for his sake.
As for his "shock", of course there will be a change in his life, like for all of us here! He'll be fine after a week of day care.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012