4311, I am going to mention that if you want to have a chance to work things out, this IS... WITHOUT A DOUBT... the BEST place to get the support you need.
Even if things move on between the two of you, the Divorce Busting or the new Divorce Remedy books are fantastic resources.
I have a tendency to help people transition into the support they need here. I have no problem supporting you.
But... as you appear to be, so will I...
To be blunt... based on your posts above... you, my friend, had a MLC 6 years ago.
AND...
You have not finished...
You still appear to feel entitled to answers and as though nothing else seems to matter to you, except for your own gratification.
You left your first wife because you "did not love her [b]THAT[/i] way?!!" Are you kidding me? In what way DO you need to love someone to make a decision to marry them in the first place?
Your M to your highschool sweetheart... how you describe it... reeks of someone who, at 35... decided he wanted to relive their past...
Did your 2nd wife come into your life AFTER the D of your first wife? Or was your 2nd W already in the picture, before the first D's ink was dried.
As I mentioned above, this is a great place to get support and the books are fantastic. I, and others, will support you in what ever way you would like.
So are you asking us for permission to move on from X2? You ask HOW to rebuild a better R with X2.
How do you think you could do that? What do you want from her?
