As a quick update. I think we're doing a pretty good job of taking it slow thus far. So far, so good.
The only real thing I've done is email my L and say we're putting things on hold until the beginning of the year, at which point we'll re-evaluate. She replied back and said, "Sounds good JB, I will continue to pray for peace for your family."
I talk to my W for about 2 minutes last night, and it was all business. It was all about my S.
We have not yet set up a time for us to get together and talk. I think I'll know when the time is right. I certainly don't want to apply any pressure.