I'm not familiar with your sitch so looks like I have some reading to do
I wanted to just chime in that I'm happy for you with the development of your sitch. Yes take it slow my friend. It seems like true space is when couple actually separate and sort through their feelings.
Keep us posted. Nice to see another cyclist in here.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.