One point I didn't see anyone bring up, sry if they did.

Like many on this board has said:

WAS will try to justify their reasons for leaving. And they are confused.
One day it may be b/c of one thing, another day it might be something totally contradictive.

Don't put too much faith into what he says.

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.