Cat posted that wisdom rarely comes from logic.....I am an understander too. I figure if I could just understand, then I could fix....I'm gonna have to let go of that and when I do, I will be on the right path.
Just not sure where to begin.
Thats a tough nut to crack. The whole trying to figure it out thing. I'm going with you can't figure out crazy lol. How do we stop trying to figure it out?!?! People can tell us al sorts of things and it is nice to read it but our hearts have to really get it. I think it comes from people loving us and telling us the things we really do not want to hear and time for our hearts to transform. I think this is why GAl is so important. We need to force our brains in a different direction, on other things and eventually our heart will follow.
I am walking right beside you RT and it is not a pleasant journey, but one we must make.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.