It's amazing the similarities we have, different triggers, but all the same in the end. Married the same amount of time, young children, plus working, and it seems like our H started showing signs around the same time and are now in the same place. I am sure glad now that I have the security of being able to provide for my family myself. I have multiple friends who went through S or D who didn't have that, and it was really scary for them. Hugs for you and your sweet, little ones.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17