I'm just confused as to what to do. Do I just let this slide, continue to sleep in separate beds and hope for the best "one day"? I'd be lying completely if I said I didn't feel really abandoned and lonely. And pissed off sometimes like today. I'm not perfect, and I know I never will be. But how do you deal with the sex issue when you're waiting?
I feel like he has all the control and say so in our sex life right now. Well, he does. So what can I do? Keep detaching, GAL? Ignore the pink elephant in the middle of my house? Go out of town for a few days? I'm just really uncomfortable being on hold and not sure how to express emotion for him. I've ceased telling him how I feel about him, crying in front of him, hugging him and initiating any kind of sex (if you don't count yesterday's talk). Ugh I'm sure this sounds like I'm complaining, and I probably am. I'm just having one of those days....
First off I wanted to say I think you're doing great and you're seeing results, I pray we start wearing our rings again. Make sure you celebrate those baby steps I also feel for you because one of my biggest issues is no feedback. It's so frustrating and I understand your abandoned and lonely feelings. I wish I had some words of wisdom but I don't because I'm living same things and struggling with it, just support to keep on doing what you're doing.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
