Thanks, AS. Perhaps I am in a grey area. It's been a while since I talked with a DB coach. Perhaps it's time to make that call.
I debate flat out asking wife about OM. But perhaps it's still too early. There's a part of me that wonders if I shouldn't wait until mid-January, after he moves...
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done