[quote=someguy]n my opinion, I'd also stop the ILY texts. You don't know how she's receiving them. She could appreciate it, or she could be thinking to herself, "ugghhh.. Now how am I supposed to respond to this!" It could be pushing her away. I wouldn't send these texts unless you know without a doubt that they are received positively.
Yes, that is the standard advice for LBS and usually the best course of action, but every sitch is different. I honestly believe that in LF's present position it makes no difference to his W if he adds this to a text or not. It does to him though.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
