I finally did it. Yesterday I told my wife, I wanted to move on.
I told her, I can't be in this marriage, while she continues to see the OM. I wrote many other things.
I probably won't post in here for awhile. I am going dark with my W.
Unfortunately I thought 6 month plan would hold out but I can't explain it...i felt I tried everything, I felt I gave everything I could to just get another chance. I had to do this for myself and the kids.
I can't explain it, I was ready to really let go.
This morning when I woke up, I didn't think about what my W was doing, but thought about what I was going to do....
Thanks to everyone who heard my story and gave advice. At the end, we all have our own timelines. Remember we control it, not our Spouses.
