This is a worry I have, that my H won't leave when I ask him to.
He's already been sleeping on the couch for almost a year. No intimacy in the past year either.
I plan on telling him that we are setting a bad example for our kids. S4 has already asked me numerous times why daddy sleeps on the couch. I don't want our boys growing up thinking this is what a normal M is. I want them to treat their significant others better than this.
They don't get a wife AND a girlfriend. That's not how it works!
Goo luck and keep us updated
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."