How do I DB when I hardly ever see H? I mean he lives an hour away. Can someone offer advice with this who has been in this sitch? I can honestly send light happy kid and finance emails, but I never see him. Even this weekend, where he was supposed to "have" kids, he says he now has dinner Saturday night back in city, so I have them. This may become an issue, I think, we will have to resolve it.
Should I say you want lunch with D and I next friday when we are in town? Like a Christmas lunch? I am okay and can be 13 if D is there.
He does not know I am not going to SIL for family dinner on 22. Everyone assumes I am going because that was my last indication in October. I do not feel I have enough grace to handle a room of his family and sig. others, when they have known for awhile about OW (at least 2 or 3 of them). How do I say "no" without causing upset? Something like, "I am sorry, but I just don't feel comfortable doing this. I thought I would, but I don't" How do I put out strong, but apologetic, since I did say I would go a couple months back? Also will not be home that evening-going for a girls' night as they rallied for me
I am really struggling these days and do not know why. Yes, I do, the emails back and forth filled me with hope when right now there is none. I am going under here....blargh
