Just had a R talk with H.
Told him if he can't cease with ow I'd like him to go.
H says not willing to give up ow, and not presently willing to go.
Told me I was being selfish, putting my needs before kids.
Told me their communications are no longer sexual.

IDK.

I'm so tired, I don't know what to think.

Going to sleep (I hope) for a while.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.