Well interesting things to come from MLCer. Perhaps him losing his cell service due to not being able to pay it might help in the long run.
I got the report for D10 that XH will now be getting a "land line" so he can call the girls and talk. However given he had internet I assumed he had to have one anyway. Out of all this time he's only called twice to talk to D10, because she told him " I don't feel like texting. CAll me if you want to talk". He's avoided emotional bonding with this texting crap and kept everyone at a distance. I swear he doesn't know how to talk without some sort of electronic device between him and who ever he's talking to.
He reported to D10 and D13 on the way to school the Triple Package he's getting through the cable company for tv, phone, and internet. As he dropped D13 off from school he said "I will give you my phone number tomorrow."
Then it's just XH and D10 alone just a few blocks away to the grade school. He then tells D10 that OW has gone back to work. It was clear she wasn't working for a while but never any announcment, and really why the heck would the kids care? She doesn't acknowledge them anyway! Then he tells D10 " here's my phone number, I have it."
Ok back the truck up here for a minute. He tells D13 just a few minutes prior that he'd give her the phone number tomorrow. Then he gets D10 alone and dumps on her about OW going back to work and oh ya, here's my phone number????
He can still get texts via wifi through the iphone. He's freezing me out again. I text him earlier this week and let him know I would be home and could take the girls to school unless he wanted to. No response. So fine, he wasn't here by 8 a.m. I took them to school.
Im starting to worry about him dumping so much on D10 or trying so hard to get her under his wing while he shoves D13 out of the nest. I really have no idea how he conversations really go with D10 an Xh. Maybe she just talks it up with him, but according to her he does most of the talking and she just quietly listens.
The girls found out via MIL (grandma) that OW is planning on having her family there Christmas Day. XH still has NOT spoken a word of this to the girls. At this point I figure he was expecting his mother to spread the news. MIL has told me she's bringing the nicer gifts to our house under our tree. OW's family has a history of theft and destruction, and really aren't to be trusted. So she was concerned the girls gifts could be broken or stolen.
Im just praying to get through these waves of irritation and annoyance with him. I swear moving half way across the nation looks better with each passing day!
