I'm surprised your h didn't say you changed the shape of the moon! Oh, the way they say things and blame us for them is unbelieveable. If it weren't so very much part of the script, you would think you were at fault.
Your h doesn't think the online EA is an affair because it is not physical. Remember Bill Clinton and dear old Monica? It's a similiar way of thinking. Unless it's physical, he's not thinking of it as a "real life" affair. To him, it's just bsing online and chatting up a storm. To us, it is an affair and it hurts deeply. It's a lack of trust and respect to us and mlcers just don't get it.
Since he asked you for your Christmas list, I would definitely give him one. I'd rather see the money spent on you than on twinkle twat. What do you like to have right now? The divorce request can come later, but I'm sure there is something you would love to have and wouldn't think of buying for yourself.
I hope that you can find some time to pamper yourself this weekend. You've had a rollercoaster week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
