I am having a real bad day, so much going through my mind (mainly mindreading what is going on in W’s head), I know I shouldn’t be doing it, and it will drive me crazy, but I can’t help myself.
This DB’ing lark is hard work.
How do you get through this? Relationship with W at the moment is good(I say relationship, I should say Friendship). We are civil to each other, no animosity, no arguing. I have so much I want to say to her, so many questions to ask. Knowing I mustn’t talk about R is hard work. Not telling her I love her is even harder. I have to pretend that everything is fine.
I have been sleeping on the Sofa for the last few months. Sharing the same bed at the moment is out of the question. I would like to approach W about taking turns on the sofa. Is it ok to do this? And if it is ok, what is the best way to approach it. During the whole of our marriage, if we ever argued, I was the one who ended up on the Sofa, every time.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Many thanks
WorriedUK
Me48; W44 M20; T25 S17 & S15 Bomb (IDLYA) 27/10/12 Still living together
