No, your not wrong for feeling that way. It's hard to understand how a WAS can not at least be there for things like that. My H left me at the worst possible time. Two deaths in the family, family pets being lost etc. He could call trying to get me to have sex with him and not even seem worried about what I was going through.

It hurt, I resented him for that. It's normal to have a whole range of emotions in a sitch like this.

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm glad the surgery went well.

M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths