NO Bruce...stop trying to control things like your wife...
You cannot force someone to see you. Even if it "worked", it would mean she'd stay in the car and "authorize" someone else to get him...
or hate and resent you more for forcing yourself on her. Stop this crazy train of thought. Get a grip.
As I said, and it has NOT changed, your best shot at making her avoidance look unecessary & possibly silly,
is you leaving her alone, being calm and kind to your son, and backing off of time with HER.... she does not want to see you. Respect that. For now, accept it. Deal w/it.
Love time with your son or this whole experience will look like a charade for you to see HER and be with HER and that the son is merely an inconvenient part of the package.
Also I would NOT tell her you had to bathe him rather than clean or change a diaper. It sort of means you avoided the hard part. It's not as bad as you are making it out to be. I Dare say every man on this site has changed a diaper by now.
Join the club...and stop trying to force her to see you. Stop the game.
Just be a good dad and trust that it will have to be enough.
You've spoken of faith. If you have faith,
then trust that if you are becoming the best Bruce you can be,
you can leave the results up to God, and be at peace.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
