Good evening,
Yeah I agree, that sentence came out funny.
I meant, all I can do now really is ask for more time with my son and take care of him. I do it for S and I, (and if that can help with W, even better).

Today I had him by myself again, and I decided to make him take a bath. When I took his nappy, it was dirty. So he took his bath (he cried a lot), and then I placed a new diaper. It is my first official dipaer change!

I will make a small account by email of how it went to W, and be sure to included that, (as if it was nothing).

When I brought him, "she wasn't home". When I called at 8:45pm nobody picked up the phone. WHen I called back at 9h15 pm, the brother picked up but "she wasn't home".
I have the BIG impression she does not want to speak with me or see me. I haven't seen her for a while now.

What do you think if next time when I bring S, if her parents tell me "she's not home", what if tell them that they don't have custody, only W or I, and therefore I am not giving them my S. And that W can come pick him up at my place when "she's back".
This way, she will have to see me, not happy in ther beginning, but at least she'll lose the habit of "not being home" or avoiding me, and she'll pick up the habit of having to see me to deal with S things, instead of delegating the handing over and reception to her parents.

How about that?


Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012