Just got caught up on your thread tonite. I think you are doing the right thing by giving yourself more time. I you say you might say the wrong things or be tempted to then you probably will, so no need to rush this.
Besides it sounds like you are making good baby steps with communication w H. Don't want to backslide while things are setting in a bit.
Have fun on your new equipment!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.