GET OVER fixing your wives. It ain't gonna happen, man, I'm telling you. Love them all you want, but fixing 'em just ain't in the cards. It just doesn't work that way.
I could be wrong, 'cuz Lord knows I have been before, you've got exactly three choices from which to choose.
1) Do nothing and be miserable.
2) Take the next year, starting tomorrow, and completely concentrate your energies on yourself. (leave your spouse out of the equation)
3) Get out of your marriage.
I haven't posted (4873 post count) on DB for a while but my first post was 07/01/04. Nothing has improved and in fact things are worse. Books didn't help "ME" although my W said I was "nicer" for a while. My giver gave out and now I am running on empty. No sex since Feb 2012 and I quit iniating
My point is not much changes so get your plan together from one of the above 3 choices. Marriage counseling helps, sometimes.
