I think the new counselor will be helpful. She is not familiar with DB, I haven't been able to find any around here that are. Mostly today we just got thru background. She doesn't really say MLC either way but did say it sounds like he needs to grow up lol. But she understands that I really want to work this out and that who he was recently when he left is really not the real him. She basically told me for now it sounds like I should keep doing what I am doing and should not invite him to move back, give him more time to figure this all out on his own. I think she was surprised that I had put up with this much already, as far as contact with other women etc. I see her again on the 31. She would eventually like to get him to come when we get closer to him moving back. We will see.
Stil no answer on the party, and I'm not asking. Still planning to go!
