MKB23,
Just doing some catching up on others' threads tonite. I ran across yours several times but haven't posted.

I'm sorry you aren't feeling well.

It does seem "interesting" that H is showing little signs of reaching out to you. (Pursuer-distancer relationship?) ANd, "trouble in paradise" is good too!

But I understand your wanting to just back off and let things be.

It sounds like you have some very solid goals as well as some things "to think about."

Hang in there & get well!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.