I was at this point 5 years ago and I did nothing to fix it. It got to the point where, i stopped filling her love tank and I am where I am at because of that.
Fill her love tank, be the 1st to do it. Don't wait, take actions. Your at a great place!!! A place many of us LBS want to be in. Realize our issues before your Spouse Drops the bomb.
You don't even need to talk, show actions of her love language.
Agree, would kill to be in your place! You have huge potential to fix this. You are at the beginning rather than the end, and your way back is a heck of a lot shorter